Rita Moreno and daughter Fernanda Luisa Gordon, April 2021.Photo: Chris Pizzello-Pool/GettyRita Morenois reflecting on past relationships and the lessons she learned.Before speaking at a live panel held at the Dotdash Meredith offices in New York City Wednesday, Moreno, 92, told PEOPLE she “probably” would’ve left her “very controlling” late husband,Leonard Gordon.Moreno and Gordon were married from 1965 until his death in 2010, and she hasn’t remarried since.“Things began to get very tense. And if it were not for my daughter, I probably would have left,” Moreno says. However, she adds she wasn’t sure if divorce was an option “because I had no plans to have a life with anybody else.”Gordon was a cardiologist and internist before he retired from the medical field to become Moreno’s manager. They shared daughterFernanda Luisa Gordon.Rita Moreno, Lenny Gordon and Fernanda Luisa; 1982.Ron Galella/Ron Galella Collection via GettyNever miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Moreno explains that marriage can be “very hard.” She also says most spouses make a “deal” that is “never spoken."“In my case, it was, ‘You’ll be the daddy and take care of me. And I’ll be your little girl and I’ll make you very happy.’ There came a time when I didn’t want that anymore,” Moreno says. “And that’s when the marriage got into trouble.”Rita Moreno as ‘Anita’ in West Side Story, 1961.Silver Screen Collection/GettyWhile referring to her late husband as someone with “a fabulous sense of humor” and “a wonderful grandfather,” she shared her takeaways from their time together as well.“This marriage taught me something about relationships that I didn’t like, and that is having to be with somebody forever and ever is not necessarily a fabulous thing. Sometimes it is. But more often than not, it’s not. That’s something I learned — a big, deep lesson.”Moreno also talked about her recent birthday bash in London, and shared why she dabbled with the idea of throwing a second and third party forturning 92.Rita Moreno and Fernanda Luisa Gordon with friends.Rita Moreno Instagram“The last [birthday] was Cuba, and we had Cuban food, and we always have a chocolate fountain. But I can’t do that anymore because I’m in a condo. I mean, I used to have about 80 people. That’s a lot,” she said of not being able to fit all of her guests.“It was a white party with beautiful white decorations and white fairy lights to complement her fresh white condo,“Gordon, 57, told PEOPLEabout her mother’s 91st birthday at the time.She added that her mom “was absolutely surprised” at the gathering, because “she thought that she was coming upstairs just to see a new light fixture — she didn’t realize thatthe place would be full of friends.”
Rita Moreno and daughter Fernanda Luisa Gordon, April 2021.Photo: Chris Pizzello-Pool/Getty
Rita Morenois reflecting on past relationships and the lessons she learned.Before speaking at a live panel held at the Dotdash Meredith offices in New York City Wednesday, Moreno, 92, told PEOPLE she “probably” would’ve left her “very controlling” late husband,Leonard Gordon.Moreno and Gordon were married from 1965 until his death in 2010, and she hasn’t remarried since.“Things began to get very tense. And if it were not for my daughter, I probably would have left,” Moreno says. However, she adds she wasn’t sure if divorce was an option “because I had no plans to have a life with anybody else.”Gordon was a cardiologist and internist before he retired from the medical field to become Moreno’s manager. They shared daughterFernanda Luisa Gordon.Rita Moreno, Lenny Gordon and Fernanda Luisa; 1982.Ron Galella/Ron Galella Collection via GettyNever miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Moreno explains that marriage can be “very hard.” She also says most spouses make a “deal” that is “never spoken."“In my case, it was, ‘You’ll be the daddy and take care of me. And I’ll be your little girl and I’ll make you very happy.’ There came a time when I didn’t want that anymore,” Moreno says. “And that’s when the marriage got into trouble.”Rita Moreno as ‘Anita’ in West Side Story, 1961.Silver Screen Collection/GettyWhile referring to her late husband as someone with “a fabulous sense of humor” and “a wonderful grandfather,” she shared her takeaways from their time together as well.“This marriage taught me something about relationships that I didn’t like, and that is having to be with somebody forever and ever is not necessarily a fabulous thing. Sometimes it is. But more often than not, it’s not. That’s something I learned — a big, deep lesson.”Moreno also talked about her recent birthday bash in London, and shared why she dabbled with the idea of throwing a second and third party forturning 92.Rita Moreno and Fernanda Luisa Gordon with friends.Rita Moreno Instagram“The last [birthday] was Cuba, and we had Cuban food, and we always have a chocolate fountain. But I can’t do that anymore because I’m in a condo. I mean, I used to have about 80 people. That’s a lot,” she said of not being able to fit all of her guests.“It was a white party with beautiful white decorations and white fairy lights to complement her fresh white condo,“Gordon, 57, told PEOPLEabout her mother’s 91st birthday at the time.She added that her mom “was absolutely surprised” at the gathering, because “she thought that she was coming upstairs just to see a new light fixture — she didn’t realize thatthe place would be full of friends.”
Rita Morenois reflecting on past relationships and the lessons she learned.
Before speaking at a live panel held at the Dotdash Meredith offices in New York City Wednesday, Moreno, 92, told PEOPLE she “probably” would’ve left her “very controlling” late husband,Leonard Gordon.
Moreno and Gordon were married from 1965 until his death in 2010, and she hasn’t remarried since.
“Things began to get very tense. And if it were not for my daughter, I probably would have left,” Moreno says. However, she adds she wasn’t sure if divorce was an option “because I had no plans to have a life with anybody else.”
Gordon was a cardiologist and internist before he retired from the medical field to become Moreno’s manager. They shared daughterFernanda Luisa Gordon.
Rita Moreno, Lenny Gordon and Fernanda Luisa; 1982.Ron Galella/Ron Galella Collection via Getty
Ron Galella/Ron Galella Collection via Getty
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Moreno explains that marriage can be “very hard.” She also says most spouses make a “deal” that is “never spoken.”
“In my case, it was, ‘You’ll be the daddy and take care of me. And I’ll be your little girl and I’ll make you very happy.’ There came a time when I didn’t want that anymore,” Moreno says. “And that’s when the marriage got into trouble.”
Rita Moreno as ‘Anita’ in West Side Story, 1961.Silver Screen Collection/Getty
Silver Screen Collection/Getty
While referring to her late husband as someone with “a fabulous sense of humor” and “a wonderful grandfather,” she shared her takeaways from their time together as well.
“This marriage taught me something about relationships that I didn’t like, and that is having to be with somebody forever and ever is not necessarily a fabulous thing. Sometimes it is. But more often than not, it’s not. That’s something I learned — a big, deep lesson.”
Moreno also talked about her recent birthday bash in London, and shared why she dabbled with the idea of throwing a second and third party forturning 92.
Rita Moreno and Fernanda Luisa Gordon with friends.Rita Moreno Instagram
“The last [birthday] was Cuba, and we had Cuban food, and we always have a chocolate fountain. But I can’t do that anymore because I’m in a condo. I mean, I used to have about 80 people. That’s a lot,” she said of not being able to fit all of her guests.
“It was a white party with beautiful white decorations and white fairy lights to complement her fresh white condo,“Gordon, 57, told PEOPLEabout her mother’s 91st birthday at the time.
She added that her mom “was absolutely surprised” at the gathering, because “she thought that she was coming upstairs just to see a new light fixture — she didn’t realize thatthe place would be full of friends.”
source: people.com
