She may be the bride’s friend and costar, butLisa Vanderpumpopted out of attendingCamille Grammer‘sHawaiian weddingon Saturday.“She’s going through a lot right now,” a source close to the reality star tells PEOPLE. “It’s not been the best time for her.”The source says that the death of Vanderpump’s beloved brother Todd in May “took a toll,” and tensions with the other ladies onThe Real Housewives of Beverly Hillshave been at an all-time high.“Lisa’s choosing not to film during any of the group activities,” says the source, who notes that the drama arose partly afterLisa Rinnaallegedly called out Vanderpump for not joining in during a cast photo shoot.Charles Sykes/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty; Dimitrios Kambouris/WireImageNow, “Lisa doesn’t want to be around the women as a group, so she’s getting less filming time. But nobody has quit. She’s definitely still on the show.”For her part, Grammer, 50, says she “understands” why Vanderpump, 58, wasn’t present to see her wed lawyer David C. Meyer.“I respect her decision,” Grammer tells PEOPLE. “Lisa was very apologetic about it.”Alex W PhotographyMost importantly, Grammer says she’s eternally grateful for the support of her friend in helping her pursue lasting love with Meyer.“She encouraged me to take a leap of faith on this journey,” says Grammer of getting married for the second time. “She really did. She told me, ‘You’ve got to take a leap!’”
She may be the bride’s friend and costar, butLisa Vanderpumpopted out of attendingCamille Grammer‘sHawaiian weddingon Saturday.
“She’s going through a lot right now,” a source close to the reality star tells PEOPLE. “It’s not been the best time for her.”
The source says that the death of Vanderpump’s beloved brother Todd in May “took a toll,” and tensions with the other ladies onThe Real Housewives of Beverly Hillshave been at an all-time high.
“Lisa’s choosing not to film during any of the group activities,” says the source, who notes that the drama arose partly afterLisa Rinnaallegedly called out Vanderpump for not joining in during a cast photo shoot.
Charles Sykes/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty; Dimitrios Kambouris/WireImage

Now, “Lisa doesn’t want to be around the women as a group, so she’s getting less filming time. But nobody has quit. She’s definitely still on the show.”
For her part, Grammer, 50, says she “understands” why Vanderpump, 58, wasn’t present to see her wed lawyer David C. Meyer.
“I respect her decision,” Grammer tells PEOPLE. “Lisa was very apologetic about it.”
Alex W Photography

Most importantly, Grammer says she’s eternally grateful for the support of her friend in helping her pursue lasting love with Meyer.
“She encouraged me to take a leap of faith on this journey,” says Grammer of getting married for the second time. “She really did. She told me, ‘You’ve got to take a leap!’”
source: people.com